ASK THE SOCIAL WORKER: LIFETIME CARE PLANS FOR PETS Q: My
15-year-old terrier, Sandy, passed away last month. I miss her very
much. My son told me to adopt another terrier for companionship and to
motivate me to continue my daily strolls. I would love to adopt another
terrier, but at 88 years old I expect my new companion will outlive me.
That worries me, do you have any suggestions?
A: I am sorry you have lost your companion of many years. I know it is difficult to adjust to such a loss and a new daily routine. I hope you are comforted with fond memories.
It’s important to consider the pros and cons of adopting another companion pet. Since Sandy lived into old age, I suspect you gave her a wonderful home and excellent care. Your concern about outliving a new pet also tells me you are very wise about the lifetime commitment an adoption may require — more than 15 years for most pets according to the Humane Society.
I suggest you contact 2nd Chance 4 Pets, www.2ndchance4pets.org or (408) 871-1133, to learn more about lifetime care planning for companion pets. This is the process of documenting instructions for the care of a companion pet, formally identifying guardians and setting aside funds for the care of a companion pet. Arranging for a trusted guardian and caregiver may relieve your worries. The information provided by 2nd Chance 4 Pets is free, but it is not a substitution for legal advice, especially if you are considering setting aside funds for a companion pet’s care.
Your local Humane Society is another free source for information and advice. Their counselors may help you assess your ability to care for a companion pet by asking: - Do you have time for a pet?
- Can you afford a pet?
- Are you prepared to deal with special problems that a pet can cause?
- Is it a good time for you to adopt a pet?
- Is your home suitable for the pet you have in mind?
- Do you have a caregiver if you are away?
- Are you prepared to care for your pet for his or her entire lifetime?
I also suggest you discuss your concerns about pet adoption with your son, doctor and veterinarian. They are likely to be aware of your emotional and physical needs as well as your ability to care for a companion pet. Should you need additional information or referrals, please call our Social Service Department toll-free at (888) 994-3863, ext. 2370.
Source: The Humane Society of the U.S., www.hsus.org or (202) 452-1100.
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